November 12, 2024

'Meet the Parents'

The Ringer's Bill Simmons hosts Kyle Brandt for a weekend away to play some indoor pool volleyball and rewatch the hit 2000 comedy 'Meet the Parents,' starring Ben Stiller, Robert De Niro, Teri Polo, and Blythe Danner.

Movie poster

Cast

Ben Stiller as Greg Focker

Robert De Niro as Jack Byrnes

Teri Polo as Pam Byrnes

Blythe Danner as Dina Byrnes

Owen Wilson as Kevin Rawley

James Rebhorn as Dr. Larry Banks

Directed by: Jay Roach

Written by: Jim Herzfeld, John Hamburg

Music by: Randy Newman

Notes

  • Bill and Kyle both consider this one of the best comedies of its era, arguing it holds up better than most early-2000s comedies.
  • They discuss how Ben Stiller was perfectly cast as the 'every man who everything goes wrong for' archetype, comparing it to his similar roles in There's Something About Mary and 'Along Came Polly'.
  • Robert De Niro's performance as Jack Byrnes is praised as one of his best late-career roles – the idea of De Niro playing a menacing father-in-law who happens to be ex-CIA was genius casting.
  • They note the cat (Mr. Jinx) was basically a co-star and one of the most memorable movie animals ever.
  • Kyle argues this movie launched an entire subgenre of 'meeting the in-laws' comedies that tried to replicate its success.
  • They discuss how Owen Wilson's brief appearance as the ex-boyfriend Kevin stole every scene he was in, a classic 'that guy' performance.

Categories

Most re-watchable scene

The indoor pool volleyball scene where Greg spikes the ball into his future sister-in-law's face

Roger Ebert's review

Quote from Rog's review:

The genius of Meet the Parents is that the characters are believable and powerful enough that it doesn't need to push beyond the edge of the possible.

Ebert appreciated the comedy but felt it relied too heavily on cringe humor.

What aged the best?
  • Robert De Niro's performance as the intimidating father-in-law – it became a cultural archetype
  • The lie detector scene
What aged the worst?
  • Some of the Greg Focker name jokes
  • The airport security humor feels different post-9/11
Cruise or Hanks?
Hanks wins

This is a Hanks movie – an everyman just trying to get through an impossible weekend

Best "that guy"

Owen Wilson as Kevin Rawley, the perfect ex-boyfriend who carves altars and is beloved by everyone

Casting what-ifs

Jim Carrey was originally considered for the Greg Focker role

Apex Mountain

Ben Stiller's run of There's Something About Mary, Meet the Parents, Zoolander, and Along Came Polly

The most 2000 thing about this movie

2000: the height of the comedy boom era with studios greenlighting high-concept comedies with big stars

The hottest take award

Kyle argues Meet the Parents is a top-5 comedy of the 2000s

Over-acting award

Ben Stiller milking the cat and the urn scenes for maximum physical comedy

Half-assed (internet) research

The lie detector scene wouldn't actually work that way – polygraphs aren't that reliable or responsive

Best (or worst!) life lessons from the movie

Never try to impress your future in-laws by lying about everything