December 22, 2021

'Father of the Bride'

The Ringer's Bill Simmons and Amanda Dobbins fill out their RSVPs as they revisit the 1991 rom-com 'Father of the Bride,' starring Steve Martin, Diane Keaton, and Kimberly Williams.

Movie poster

Cast

Steve Martin as George Banks

Diane Keaton as Nina Banks

Martin Short as Franck Eggelhoffer

Kieran Culkin as Matty Banks

George Newbern as Bryan MacKenzie

BD Wong as Howard Weinstein

Eugene Levy as Guest

Directed by: Charles Shyer

Written by: Nancy Meyers, Charles Shyer

Notes

  • $20 million budget, made $120 million at the box office.
  • Steve Martin was cast before the screenplay was written – they locked him in, then Nancy Meyers and Charles Shyer wrote it around him.
  • Phoebe Cates was offered the role of Annie Banks but had to turn it down because she was pregnant.
  • Diane Keaton said Disney/Jeffrey Katzenberg didn't want to work with her after her flop 'The Good Mother'; Shyer and Meyers had to beg to get her cast.
  • Steve Martin had no children when he made this movie (he didn't have a kid until age 67); neither did Diane Keaton at the time.
  • The exterior house is in Pasadena; interiors were sets. The actual interior house sold for $1.998 million in 2016.
  • An actor named Tom Irish made his film debut in the 1950 'Father of the Bride' and his last film appearance in this 1991 version, playing the same character (Ben Banks).
  • Martin Short's wedding planner character is based on real wedding planner Kevin Lee, who later appeared on Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.
  • George Newbern (Bryan) went on to become one of the most prolific audiobook narrators with 350+ credits on Audible.
  • There was a virtual Netflix/Zoom reunion sequel during the pandemic – considered a low point.
  • 'Father of the Bride' Part 2 had a $30 million budget and made $76.6 million.

Categories

Roger Ebert's review

Quote from Rog's review:

One of the movies with a lot of smiles and laughter and a good feeling all the way through.

Bill was hoping for 3.5 stars.

Most re-watchable scene
  • Bill and Amanda both pick Annie telling the family she's getting married – the first family dinner scene.
  • Also discussed: the opening monologue, meeting Bryan, cutting down the wedding list, the blender fight, the kid montage/basketball scene.
What aged the best?
  • Kieran Culkin – knowing he'd become Roman Roy on Succession. Possibly the best 'what aged the best' in the history of the category.
  • Kimberly Williams.
  • San Marino as a location.
  • The basketball scene.
  • The overwhelmed dad who can't afford the wedding as a plot device.
  • The hot dog buns / hot dogs mismatch scene.
  • The house.
What aged the worst?
  • Getting married at 22.
  • 'Father of the Bride' Part 2.
  • The virtual Netflix/Zoom pandemic sequel.
  • Martin Short's accent gag – one-note, that style of comedy doesn't work anymore in 2021.
  • The falling-in-the-pool scene (hacky/gimmicky).
  • Some of Diane Keaton's clothes (though coming back in style).
Casting what-ifs
  • Phoebe Cates was offered Annie but was pregnant.
  • Diane Keaton almost didn't get cast because Disney/Katzenberg didn't want her after The Good Mother.
Best "that guy"
  • Winner: George Newbern (Bryan the son-in-law) – Bill didn't know his name until researching. He's been in ~200 things and is a prolific audiobook narrator.
  • BD Wong – has won before but Bill says he's graduated from the category.
Over-acting award

Martin Short as Franck – described as 'most overacting' rather than 'best overacting.'

Best "heat check" performance
  • Winner: Kieran Culkin.
  • Martin Short disqualified – both hosts annoyed by the performance.
  • Eugene Levy (one scene, fine). BD Wong. Diane Keaton (too big a role to qualify).
Re-casting couch

Bill's pick for the son-in-law role: George Clooney (1991 Facts of Life-era Clooney). Amanda pushed back that he'd pull too much focus.

Half-assed (internet) research
  • Tom Irish appeared in both the 1950 and 1991 versions playing the same character.
  • Spencer Tracy's Best Actor nomination for the original.
  • Martin Short's character based on real wedding planner Kevin Lee.
  • The exterior house in Pasadena; interior house sold for ~$2M in 2016.
Apex Mountain
  • Steve Martin – not his overall apex (that's 1978-79 SNL/Jerk era), but Apex Mountain for 'mainstream Steve Martin' / second-career Steve Martin.
  • Kimberly Williams – yes.
  • Father-daughter movies – yes.
  • San Marino – 100% yes.
  • Wedding movies – yes.
  • Diane Keaton – no (hers is Annie Hall). Nancy Meyers – no (hers comes later).
Picking nits
  • No father-daughter dance at the wedding.
  • No rehearsal dinner. No Sunday breakfast after.
  • Annie and Bryan leave immediately for their honeymoon (unrealistic).
  • 14-year age gap between Kimberly Williams and Kieran Culkin as siblings.
  • It snows in LA (Pasadena) – 2 inches that magically melts by nighttime.
  • 572 guests is too many; 200 people crammed in that house is a stretch.
  • Annie doesn't tell her parents about Bryan for 3 months.
(Probably) unanswerable questions
  • How much did the wedding cost? (Estimated $60-90K in 1991 dollars.)
  • Should this be remade as a Netflix show? (Amanda: yes, as 'Grandfather of the Bride' with Steve Martin and Diane Keaton as grandparents.)
  • Is this the best Steve Martin movie ever? (Both say yes.)
  • Is Annie actually a good daughter? (Bill argues no – she doesn't call for 3 months, drops a bomb, flips out over the blender, leaves the wedding without saying goodbye.)
What memorabilia would you want (or not want!) from the movie?
  • Amanda: the house (or the cappuccino maker).
  • Bill: the bedazzled wedding bride sneakers.
Who won the movie?

Steve Martin. Nancy Meyers is a secondary candidate but her bigger wins come later in her career.